Dating for Younger Adults (15–45)

What is the role of self-disclosure in relationship development?

  • Self-disclosure is the act of revealing information about yourself to another person
  • It’s an essential part of relationship development and often results in increased liking and attraction
  • There is an expectation of reciprocity—I share, you share
  • Self-disclosure varies in breadth or the number of topics you are willing to disclose to another—hobbies, education, family, work experience
  • Self-disclosures also differ in depth or the level of intimacy and amount of detail shared with another
  • Which brings us to the Onion Theory (Social Penetration Theory) — an explanation of how the quality or intimacy of self-disclosures change over time in relationships as they become more intimate. When individuals gain trust in one another, they are more likely to share private information
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